Self-regulation
only 12% can boast of this
- Energy
- Passion
- Self-Regulation
- Mindfulness
Self-regulation is the main source of your confidence and sexual experience.
At some point, you must’ve set aside your previous adventures as they did not fit well with your work and other important life priorities.
However, in your current relationship, you have retained everything you need to have fun. The memory of past exploits is still fresh and it is quite enough for your pride and self-confidence.
You are content with yourself and manage to find time for sex, although you admit that the variety of erotic experiences has narrowed lately.
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You value yourself, and this applies both to your work and your relationships with friends, sexual partners, and family. You carefully choose your partners and pay attention to the quality of your sexual relationships. People of various sexes and genders trust you and are ready to support your initiatives and leadership in a wide range of projects. You have many opportunities for intimate relationships and are respected and recognized in all your roles, including as an object of attraction and love. When your desirability is validated, you strive to be fair and reciprocate with your partners, in line with your life goals. Your prudence and attention to how your body feels help you avert multiple sexual relationships. You know that many people desire you, but you prefer a select and reliable few. You are “very nearly monogamous,” although you are aware of the interest on the part of your admirers. Flirting is natural for you in both personal and work relationships, but you do not attach too much importance to it.
You control the key aspects of well-being, such as health, income, and social status, almost automatically. Healthy and successful people get your attention, and you sometimes fantasize about having sex with them. However, you value and stick to socially meaningful relationships, whether it be marriage, parenthood, or just friendships. You believe that affairs should be light and, ideally, hidden from regular partners. You also think that people who are irresponsible and not serious are asexual, even if they are physically attractive. You know how to communicate clearly, how to make decisions and keep promises. You will think several times before changing anything in a relationship, and if you decide to break it off, you then easily end the relationship and maintain friendly contact with former partners.
When it comes to bodily experience, you feel your arousal as something joyful and inspiring, boldly succumbing to it under the right circumstances. Other people, when experiencing the same feelings, are often either afraid to admit them to themselves or rush to immediately satisfy themselves. You, on the other hand, usually take the necessary time to prepare and then orgasm with pleasure – whether with a partner or alone, without making it an issue or creating far-fetched obstacles for your own sensuality. Trust in your sexual drive, combined with a certain thoughtfulness and generosity in sex, sets you apart from others.
Eroticism in business or professionalism in sex
You are at the peak of your self-realization and involved in important life and professional projects, yet sex has a special place in your value system.
Your past experience in this department is quite successful, and you cherish many great memories. You attract the attention of potential partners but often fail to notice sexual innuendo around you. Simple admiration for you has become commonplace – because isn’t it just par for the course?
For you, sex has an “ancillary” role, and you know very well how to satisfy yourself. You prefer refined yet economical ways to reach a climax. Regular orgasms keep you in good form. Sexual tension does not prevent you from doing other important things, such as advancing your career, company development, or building an impeccable reputation.
Your work arouses you as much as physical pleasure. If you are ashamed to admit that your business physically arouses you, you should not be: you are one of the lucky ones who have experienced the allure of their calling.
With whom, when, and where?
Your sex life includes a relationship with a partner, usually a committed one. If you have not yet met your mate, you have regular friendly liaisons with people who share your bed.
You establish a kind of agreement on mutual responsibility, where both parties understand and respect each other’s needs, desires, and obligations. You are ready to be responsible for your duties, but you also expect your partner to hold up their part of the bargain. One of your erotic expectations is your partner’s sincere respect for you as a person, which can be expressed through your favorite caresses and fantasies.
You are delighted if your partner can guess what you want and like on their own, but if they don’t, you openly talk about your preferences. You know how to appreciate your partner’s role in your pleasure and express gratitude through words of approval and gestures of generosity – from compliments and gifts to caring touches and selfless acts for your loved one.
Sex is always about something bigger
For you, sex is symbolic and even mystical. You understand its role in your life clearly and sometimes even a bit cynically, as a source of power and self-assertiveness.
Over time, sexual interactions take on a deeper meaning and help you better understand yourself and the world. You are constantly balancing between the desire for self-realization, influence, and publicity and the need for privacy in intimate relationships. This is why your choice of a partner becomes especially important: this person in your life must not only share your sexual experience but also support your life strategy, sometimes playing an important role.
Adults often choose a relationship model where one partner plays a supporting role and the other is a lead, or they collaborate on family and financial matters. If such a relationship is deliberate, conscious, and agreed-upon, and if it suits both partners, such a lifestyle will be fulfilling and rewarding.
Everything's under control
You are used to automatically keeping a tight rein on various aspects of your life – health, income, social status, etc. You are attracted to people who lead a healthy lifestyle and are at your level. Sometimes, you fantasize about having sex with them, but you always keep in mind the value of a serious relationship– marriage, parenthood, or friendship. Even if you do enter into an affair, you make sure they are easy and do not create problems for either of the parties. Better yet, if they remain unknown to your regular partners.
You value clarity in relationships, so you take responsibility for your decisions and keep your promises. When the time comes to break up, you easily end old relationships and maintain friendly contact with former partners.
Healthy body as a creed
When it comes to bodily experience, you know how important wellbeing is to you. This is why you usually consciously or unconsciously give yourself enough time to rest and recuperate, replenishing your strength and regaining emotional balance.
In your case, a sexual drive can be seen as a sign of health and an indicator of normalcy. By the presence of a slight arousal, you will understand whether you are doing OK. Your body is the source of your spontaneity and inspiration, when you are well, you are at your most charming and your effect on others is at its peak! If you have not fully understood this until now, this is the time when you should start listening to yourself.
Pay attention to your gestures, movements of different parts of your body, your breathing and gaze. This will not only bring you pleasure, but will also help make you attractive to potential partners. Trust in your sexuality, combined with a certain thoughtfulness and generosity in sex, sets you apart from others.
Strengths parties:
- Vibrant sexual expression and attractiveness
- The ability to make choices in favor of your desires and follow them in practice
- The ability to passionately experience the moment and lead others in the direction of enjoyment
Vulnerable parties:
- Feeling exhausted or suddenly losing energy during your sexual adventures and/or work projects`
- There may be uncertainty about the significance of your role in relationships with partners, often the need for their leading role in order to complete the enterprises initiated by you and even achieve orgasm
- Reduced ability to self-regulate, manage resources of health, money and time
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