Passion
only 7% can boast of this
- Energy
- Passion
- Self-Regulation
- Mindfulness
Passion is the main source of your strength, energy, emotional uplift, and mental clarity.
Your natural creativity feeds on erotic dreams and fantasies and develops through bringing them to life.
You are at the peak of your sexual activity and need to freely express your desires with partners through sexual experimentation and admiration from others.
Your resource distribution chart
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Your self-regulation level
Your mindfulness level
Meet your primary strength
Sometimes, when you feel your own passion, you judge yourself and have mixed feelings about your desires. You believe that others will not approve of your sexuality, and you may find your desires unacceptable. Stereotypes, moral attitudes, and demands from figures of authority can hinder your pleasure or make you feel guilty. Don’t forget that your passion is a thing of beauty, and you deserve to be happy!
You control the key aspects of well-being, such as health, income, and social status, almost automatically. Healthy and successful people get your attention, and you sometimes fantasize about having sex with them. However, you value and stick to socially meaningful relationships, whether it be marriage, parenthood, or just friendships. You believe that affairs should be light and, ideally, hidden from regular partners. You also think that people who are irresponsible and not serious are asexual, even if they are physically attractive. You know how to communicate clearly, how to make decisions and keep promises. You will think several times before changing anything in a relationship, and if you decide to break it off, you then easily end the relationship and maintain friendly contact with former partners.
You are under the impression that after all of life’s ups and downs, all that remains is to pay up by simply doing what experienced adults tell you. It may not be very sexy, but that’s your conclusion at present. For you, sex, especially sex in a committed relationship, also resembles compulsory duty that you have learned to do dependably, without thinking that anything else may be in store for normal, honest people.
Feeling blissful
Bliss and joy of life – that’s your motto! You know how to enjoy sex and the world around you, and orgasm has become your shining beacon guide from the very first time. You instantly pick up the signs of arousal and know how to get your pleasure. Your imagination helps you create perfect moments of passion. Health and sexual desire become the crucial indicators of your wellbeing.
Onward to joyful adventures!
When, where and with whom to have fun?
Your thoughts revolve around these questions! You are forever looking for the perfect occasions to flirt, going to parties and meeting new people. Never forgetting about comfortable places to have sex, you find that new places only ignite your desire!
In your own eyes, you are magnificent if
You are fabulous when you feel sexually attractive. When the people you like notice and pay attention to you, it fills you with confidence and lifts your spirits. You consider this “slightly charged” emotional upsurge normal and want to keep it up in your daily life.
Why not start every morning with flight and freedom? If you rarely get to feel like this, it can cause frustration and a desire to drastically change something – find a new partner, alter the situation, move, or change jobs.
A boring life is not for you!
The drama of the fall
Your passion is encroached upon by moral doubt, self-reflection, and self-criticism. You judge yourself in terms of good and evil, nobility and depravity. But this is how you get to know yourself better and show yourself as a thinking person, even if you may be overly dramatic at times. You may be attracted to many people who are willing to share your bed, and you can be a real firecracker, an idol-level sex star. But you are not entirely certain that you are prepared to sleep with one and all. Your exceptional personality haunts not just those around you but also yourself.
Sometimes your admirers annoy you, and you want to get away from them. Still, as soon as a new seducer shows up on the horizon, you dive head-first right into the abyss of passion, forgetting all about your introspection and philosophy for the sake of a moment of pleasure. Once that has passed, you will berate yourself for your foolishness and unsuccessful attempt to reign in your sexual impulse.
Comparing yourself to others
Noticing that your personal experience is unique, you find justifications for your actions. Your obsessive self-reflection is one of the things that make you so unusual. By looking at your behavior in the context of family, religious, or community values, you will realize how exceptional your experience is. You might even consider writing a book about it, but chances are your brilliant ideas will disappear as soon as you sit down at your desk – after all, real life and relationships are much more exciting than setting down words on a page.
In reality, you likely do not have enough patience and artistic vision to write a book. Your self-judgment may even produce nasty images to temporarily keep your inner lover from embarking on new adventures, but that’s where it all ends. You can, however, share your experience with friends or divulge it to a life coach/therapist.
Passion and restraint: a heady mix
You are drawn to a combination of sex appeal and the ability to restrain one’s desires, which can deceive both inexperienced and experienced partners for a while. You can keep on a string of wealthy men and women who are looking for a serious relationship. But if you face a choice or encounter a difficult life situation, your impulsiveness and unpredictability can get out.
At such times, your insecurity, thirst for pleasure, and irrational thinking can become a problem for your partner. As a rule, more mature partners are not ready for such challenges. In intimate relationships, such tensions can be confusing because your sex appeal is extremely attractive, but your dramatic self-judgment and moral anguish rooted deep in your personality can get in the way of a real connection and chemistry.
Everything's under control
You are used to automatically keeping a tight rein on various aspects of your life – health, income, social status, etc. You are attracted to people who lead a healthy lifestyle and are at your level. Sometimes, you fantasize about having sex with them, but you always keep in mind the value of a serious relationship– marriage, parenthood, or friendship.
Even if you do enter into an affair, you make sure they are easy and do not create problems for either of the parties. Better yet, if they remain unknown to your regular partners. You value clarity in relationships, so you take responsibility for your decisions and keep your promises. When the time comes to break up, you easily end old relationships and maintain friendly contact with former partners.
Sex as a chore
Whether you like it or not, you have to do things in a socially acceptable way, but you are not sure you like it. Obediently following the instructions and demands of other people is something you know how to do well, but there is nothing exciting about it. In sex, not everyone likes obeying and following instructions since there is a minimal initiative in it and a lot of fear and passive waiting.
Some partners out there have accepted this trait of yours, that of “being led,” and these partners tend to be dominant. Think about it, and if this suits you, get the most out of games involving the submission and domination roles. Your arousal will let you know whether this is working for you. If you are just servicing your partner and sex feels like a chore, this is not what you need: sooner or later, your partner will figure out that you’re faking it, and both of you will be sad.
Fatigue tends to lead to the wrong conclusions
You may feel that you have to “behave properly” as payback for something shameful or wrong you’ve done in your life, attributing a certain mystery to the sources and reasons for not living your life as you’d like. This is why you are prone to a “redemptive” style in your relationships with partners: sometimes, you may feel shame and apologize for things that you are completely innocent of or take responsibility for the actions of others.
It can be difficult for you to defend your position – it is much easier to maintain the image of a perfect adult who simply demonstrates exemplary behavior. Instead of asking for help and relying on your partner, you tend to assert your independence and strive to look self-sufficient even when you’re on the verge of exhaustion. Most of the time, you get away with staying hidden behind this image, but this can be exceptionally difficult in bed. After all, this setting calls for sincerity and arousal, and you are too tired, just automatically doing a “chore.”
Strengths parties:
- Vibrant sexual self-expression and allure.
- The irresistible allure of a conflicted personality, the magnetism of restrained desire.
- Attention to all aspects of well-being – from health, safety, and money to obligations to other people and friendly relations with former partners.
- Can-do attitude, loyalty, the ability to do whatever another person may need without any unnecessary demands, if energy and physical resources are available.
Vulnerable parties:
- A tendency towards self-centeredness, fixating solely on your own pleasure in the course of your sexual adventures.
- An extreme tension between the impulse to have pleasure right here and now and the need to be aware of yourself, your behavior, and life in general. A constant cycle of restraint and breaking loose.
- Tendency to keep a super-tight rein on things; hyper-vigilance and propensity to switch to “manual drive” in unforeseen circumstances.
- Automatically following the instructions of significant or influential people. The risk of mental confusion and emotional dissolution when they are around, especially when tired.
Recommendations:
#01
Continue to listen to yourself and express your feelings. Your forte is your senses, your emotions, and your ability to let them out. It’s like a one-person show where the audience comes to watch a great actor perform. Don’t worry if your style isn’t perfect for everyone. What’s important is that they come, listen to you, and appreciate you. Develop your mastery and enjoy it along with others.
#02
Open your eyes to what prevents you from having real pleasure and fight it! Write down all the thoughts and emotions that get in the way and nip them in the bud. Know that your sexuality is not a curse but a blessing! You absolutely can rely on your inner drive and achieve what you want – you just need to believe in yourself.
#03
Try discussing this with a smart and successful friend or acquaintance whose opinions and experiences impress you. Who, in your opinion, has moved a step or two further towards their dream than you? Find among the older generation a friend whose image and life example inspire you. Ask meaningful questions and seek advice. Don’t be afraid to acknowledge your weaknesses and listen to critique. This will help you move forward and believe in yourself. Don’t forget that you can always come back to your own strategies and decisions.
#04
You no longer have to chase after everyone who comes into view. You have realized that flirting can be just as enjoyable and meaningful as immediate sexual contact. You know how to enjoy spending time with people around you, even without the constant desire for a climax. If you just think about it, you can feel serenity and gratitude for everything that’s happening in your life, including your current sexuality style. You can even afford to embellish your pleasure realm – what more could you ask for? It’s time for the most beautiful and erotic vacation of your life.
Dare to make your wildest dreams come true! There are many places to go, cultures to experience, and gardens to explore. You have the time to tell your partner they are the best person in the entire world. When the body is full of energy, you want to dance until you drop or have sex until you’re filled to the brim. Plan and set off on your journey to pleasure. This is the real fruit of your labor!
#05
Yes, this may seem a little naive, and you may not orgasm right away, but to see around the corner, you must first go out for a walk. You will be surprised how much joy an unaffected friend can give if you just let go of your status, age, and intelligence checklist.
Do not be afraid to show your vulnerability to people who are safe for you – trust your body and intuition. It is just possible that a seemingly trivial relationship will end up giving you moments of long-forgotten joy and demonstrate the power of trust, where you don’t have to exercise excessive control. Don’t rush such relationships, but don’t diminish them because of past experiences either. Try to live in the moment, especially since such a partner will genuinely give you their undivided attention. You will be able to relax and not think about your duties, at least while in the arms of a sweet lover. Such moments will give you the sense that life has meaning and is worth living. You will be able to trust your body more and orgasm more.
