Self-regulation
only 12% can boast of this
- Energy
- Passion
- Self-Regulation
- Mindfulness
Self-regulation is the main source of your confidence and sexual experience.
At some point, you must’ve set aside your previous adventures as they did not fit well with your work and other important life priorities.
However, in your current relationship, you have retained everything you need to have fun. The memory of past exploits is still fresh and it is quite enough for your pride and self-confidence.
You are content with yourself and manage to find time for sex, although you admit that the variety of erotic experiences has narrowed lately.
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You value yourself, and this applies both to your work and your relationships with friends, sexual partners, and family. You carefully choose your partners and pay attention to the quality of your sexual relationships. People of various sexes and genders trust you and are ready to support your initiatives and leadership in a wide range of projects. You have many opportunities for intimate relationships and are respected and recognized in all your roles, including as an object of attraction and love. When your desirability is validated, you strive to be fair and reciprocate with your partners, in line with your life goals. Your prudence and attention to how your body feels help you avert multiple sexual relationships. You know that many people desire you, but you prefer a select and reliable few. You are “very nearly monogamous,” although you are aware of the interest on the part of your admirers. Flirting is natural for you in both personal and work relationships, but you do not attach too much importance to it.
You control the key aspects of well-being, such as health, income, and social status, almost automatically. Healthy and successful people get your attention, and you sometimes fantasize about having sex with them. However, you value and stick to socially meaningful relationships, whether it be marriage, parenthood, or just friendships. You believe that affairs should be light and, ideally, hidden from regular partners. You also think that people who are irresponsible and not serious are asexual, even if they are physically attractive. You know how to communicate clearly, how to make decisions and keep promises. You will think several times before changing anything in a relationship, and if you decide to break it off, you then easily end the relationship and maintain friendly contact with former partners.
When it comes to bodily experience, you feel your arousal as something joyful and inspiring, boldly succumbing to it under the right circumstances. Other people, when experiencing the same feelings, are often either afraid to admit them to themselves or rush to immediately satisfy themselves. You, on the other hand, usually take the necessary time to prepare and then orgasm with pleasure – whether with a partner or alone, without making it an issue or creating far-fetched obstacles for your own sensuality. Trust in your sexual drive, combined with a certain thoughtfulness and generosity in sex, sets you apart from others.
Eroticism in business or professionalism in sex
You are at the peak of your self-realization and involved in important life and professional projects, yet sex has a special place in your value system.
Your past experience in this department is quite successful, and you cherish many great memories. You attract the attention of potential partners but often fail to notice sexual innuendo around you. Simple admiration for you has become commonplace – because isn’t it just par for the course?
For you, sex has an “ancillary” role, and you know very well how to satisfy yourself. You prefer refined yet economical ways to reach a climax. Regular orgasms keep you in good form. Sexual tension does not prevent you from doing other important things, such as advancing your career, company development, or building an impeccable reputation.
Your work arouses you as much as physical pleasure. If you are ashamed to admit that your business physically arouses you, you should not be: you are one of the lucky ones who have experienced the allure of their calling.
With whom, when, and where?
Your sex life includes a relationship with a partner, usually a committed one. If you have not yet met your mate, you have regular friendly liaisons with people who share your bed.
You establish a kind of agreement on mutual responsibility, where both parties understand and respect each other’s needs, desires, and obligations. You are ready to be responsible for your duties, but you also expect your partner to hold up their part of the bargain. One of your erotic expectations is your partner’s sincere respect for you as a person, which can be expressed through your favorite caresses and fantasies.
You are delighted if your partner can guess what you want and like on their own, but if they don’t, you openly talk about your preferences. You know how to appreciate your partner’s role in your pleasure and express gratitude through words of approval and gestures of generosity – from compliments and gifts to caring touches and selfless acts for your loved one.
Sex is always about something bigger
For you, sex is symbolic and even mystical. You understand its role in your life clearly and sometimes even a bit cynically, as a source of power and self-assertiveness.
Over time, sexual interactions take on a deeper meaning and help you better understand yourself and the world. You are constantly balancing between the desire for self-realization, influence, and publicity and the need for privacy in intimate relationships. This is why your choice of a partner becomes especially important: this person in your life must not only share your sexual experience but also support your life strategy, sometimes playing an important role.
Adults often choose a relationship model where one partner plays a supporting role and the other is a lead, or they collaborate on family and financial matters. If such a relationship is deliberate, conscious, and agreed-upon, and if it suits both partners, such a lifestyle will be fulfilling and rewarding.
Everything's under control
You are used to automatically keeping a tight rein on various aspects of your life – health, income, social status, etc. You are attracted to people who lead a healthy lifestyle and are at your level. Sometimes, you fantasize about having sex with them, but you always keep in mind the value of a serious relationship– marriage, parenthood, or friendship. Even if you do enter into an affair, you make sure they are easy and do not create problems for either of the parties. Better yet, if they remain unknown to your regular partners.
You value clarity in relationships, so you take responsibility for your decisions and keep your promises. When the time comes to break up, you easily end old relationships and maintain friendly contact with former partners.
Healthy body as a creed
When it comes to bodily experience, you know how important wellbeing is to you. This is why you usually consciously or unconsciously give yourself enough time to rest and recuperate, replenishing your strength and regaining emotional balance.
In your case, a sexual drive can be seen as a sign of health and an indicator of normalcy. By the presence of a slight arousal, you will understand whether you are doing OK. Your body is the source of your spontaneity and inspiration, when you are well, you are at your most charming and your effect on others is at its peak! If you have not fully understood this until now, this is the time when you should start listening to yourself.
Pay attention to your gestures, movements of different parts of your body, your breathing and gaze. This will not only bring you pleasure, but will also help make you attractive to potential partners. Trust in your sexuality, combined with a certain thoughtfulness and generosity in sex, sets you apart from others.
Strengths parties:
- High self-confidence combined with adequate self-criticism; the experience of “being loved” and the ability to naturally perceive other people’s sexual interest towards yourself.
- The ability to feel uplifted and even aroused in a work setting, which helps achieve meaningful social goals.
- Attention to all aspects of well-being – from health, safety, and money to obligations to other people and friendly relations with former partners.
- As soon as your energy and physical strength are replenished, your sexuality flares up naturally, delighting you and your partners.
Vulnerable parties:
- Unwitting egocentrism, a tendency to fall into the trap of power and personal importance, where, once there, you inevitably have a blind spot with respect to the real interests and needs of others.
- The risk of having close relationships turn into a formality, when a partner is reduced to a mere function.
- Tendency to keep a super-tight rein on things; hyper-vigilance and propensity to switch to “manual drive” in unforeseen circumstances.
- From time to time, you run the risk of looking ridiculous and may feel embarrassed that others may take you for a naive person.
Recommendations:
#01
Your business activities can sometimes overshadow your romantic meetings, and this can have a negative impact on your loved ones and yourself. Don’t risk forgetting what unbridled passion, the joy of caresses, orgasm, and emotional release feel like.
Also, keep in mind that your partners may have a different sexual rhythm and different desires in sex. To resolve this potential disparity, have a playful conversation and try scheduling your dates in advance, in a calm setting. If your partner does not want to openly discuss their needs, relying instead on spontaneity, or finds conversations about intimate matters unacceptable, remember that the best impromptu events tend to be well-prepared!
Ask questions, share your desires – find out about their preferences in sex, how long they like their foreplay to be, their orgasms, the things that arouse them, preferred lubricants, hygiene, fantasies, etc. It will help you better plan your trysts and create pleasure for both. A conscious approach to sex is the key to success in a couple!
#02
But let’s ask ourselves this: what do we know about our partner’s experiences when they are alone and are aroused or having an orgasm? It is good and right to talk to your partner now and then about what brings them joy or gets in the way of their climax in different situations, whether it be with us, with someone else, or alone.
In sex, even with a regular partner, things shift: sexual preferences can change, and new desires may emerge. It is critical to notice these subtle changes to strengthen the bond with your partner and find even more pleasure in every situation.
Together we create unforgettable moments!
#03
Find time to talk: call, send suggestive texts, remind them of the shared moments of pleasure. Sex is a sensual pursuit; it feeds off of beautiful and romantic speech. Use words, movies, music, gifts, and gestures to fuel your and your partner’s imagination and bring on fulfillment. Notice your partner’s signals of completion and discuss your desires. Be candid and vulnerable and listen to each other.
Become the masters in communication and enjoy your sexual connection!
#04
Practice your praises to become a master of erotic language. Learn your partner’s thinking and get to know their mindset. You are the leading actor in your sexual adventures. Receive sincere feedback from a grateful partner and get to know yourself better.
Your self-confidence will be strengthened, and you will be able to achieve your life goals with more confidence!
#05
You no longer have to chase after everyone who comes into view. You have realized that flirting can be just as enjoyable and meaningful as immediate sexual contact. You know how to enjoy spending time with people around you, even without the constant desire for a climax.
If you just think about it, you can feel serenity and gratitude for everything that’s happening in your life, including your current sexuality style. You can even afford to embellish your pleasure realm – what more could you ask for?
It’s time for the most beautiful and erotic vacation of your life. Dare to make your wildest dreams come true! There are many places to go, cultures to experience, and gardens to explore. You have the time to tell your partner they are the best person in the entire world. When the body is full of energy, you want to dance until you drop or have sex until you’re filled to the brim.
Plan and set off on your journey to pleasure. This is the real fruit of your labor!
#06
To this end, it is worth letting go of some control and listening to your body during regular physical exertion, such as sports, sex, walking, etc. Even minutes in the shower can become a springboard for healthy and balanced contact with your body. In these few free minutes, pay attention to your breathing and try to completely free your mind of work- or chore-related thoughts. We are talking here about finding short but mandatory periods of “controlled thoughtlessness” in your schedule.
Allow letting go of muscle control while in motion or emotions when your attention shifts become as familiar a practice to you as your habit of reserve. You will surely enjoy this bodily-emotional “sport of letting go of control” as your body’s resources will begin to accumulate and sensuality develops. This emotional flexibility will allow you to be more playful with partners and productive in relationships with people.
#07
You are not in a rush – watch how people act, notice their bodies, developments, and circumstances around you. Believe me, this is almost as exciting as initiating the change yourself!
Experiment with trust: blindfolded, physically follow your partner playing this game within your agreed-upon rules. Ask for caresses where you are passive and try to give yourself to your leading partner with wonder and frankness. If you come up with funny or childish images of yourself, don’t be alarmed: appreciate dress-up games and playful understatement. Sometimes this can be very exciting! You can afford to be yourself in all kinds of different roles and manifestations. Life itself will seem more joyful and blissful – after all, it does not rely solely on your actions, and sexuality will take its rightful place.
Even if you do not notice this change yourself (the general state of well-being is usually taken for granted!), people around you will begin to pay attention to your particular optimism and positive outlook on life. Unbeknownst to yourself, you will turn into a more open and calm person, ready to respond to the simple joys of life and the opportunities provided by the world around you.
You will also be less critical or judgmental about other people’s behavior – their mistakes, demands, or whims. You will be able to handle your professional and personal life with more ease. What an unexpected bonus, improved work relationships, thanks to more “”planned”” sex in life!”
