Energy
only 8% can boast of this
- Energy
- Passion
- Self-Regulation
- Mindfulness
Energy is your main source of understanding the ebbs and flows of sexual potency and you know how to follow them.
You are a lucky optimist. Your sexuality springs from the feeling of natural energy and openness to the world.
For you, sex is a natural part of life that only logically follows a healthy body’s impulse to stay alive in all situations.
Your resource distribution chart
Your energy level
Your sexuality level
Your self-regulation level
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Meet your primary strength
Thankfully, you’re not the only one who feels an influx of arousal as something joyful and inspiring. Whether consciously or not, other people feel the same, only they are often scared to admit it to themselves. You, on the other hand, do not see anything wrong with expressing your drive almost as directly as you are experiencing it. Trust in your sexual impulse, combined with an almost childlike spontaneity and charm, distinguishes you from others.
At the peak of arousal, you see things more clearly and can truly freely go after what you want. Moreover, this impulse doesn’t end with just sex for the sake of sex. You are able to harness your erotic phantasies in making important life decisions: your relationships, friendships, work. As a rule, your spontaneous and natural intensity, your playfulness and curiosity appeal to people. You know that you are making the right choice – and this brings more confidence to you and your partners. You look like a lucky dog and, apparently, are one!
You enjoy the trust of people of all sexes and genders. They willingly cooperate with you and, if necessary, offer their support. Because of that, you have no shortage of candidates open to entering into an intimate relationship with you, should you so wish. You are acknowledged in your role as a desirable love object. Only your own prudence and attention to the sensations of your body can stop you from multiple and promiscuous liaisons. You prefer reliable partners and are “virtually monogamous,” although, of course, you are not a stranger to light flirting, which makes your life brighter.
Your physical resource is everything to you!
You may have noticed how much your sexuality as well as your actions and moods depend on your physical strength, health, and the level of energy.
If you believe that this is true for all people, you are not entirely correct. In your case, the wellbeing of your body is a prerequisite for any undertaking, including sexual adventures. Your body practically gives you an ultimatum, and you must carefully listen to its demands. After all, if you are hungry or stuffed, if you are too hot or too cold, if the party is too loud or too boring, the very thought of sex will be unpleasant.
Luckily, you are very good at listening to your body and know your limits in every way. Generally, you acutely feel the ebbs and flows of energy and treat them as a natural occurrence that should be paid attention to. To an outsider, this peculiarity of yours may seem a bit childish and even naive, but it should actually be accepted as something natural in you, as an important and foundational personality trait. This attention to immediate experiences and sensations is incredibly valuable in sex and may bring unforgettable experiences to you and your partner.
The power of vulnerability
In search of your own brand of sexuality, you have likely tried to be more engaged and determined, thought about those who act more confidently and dazzlingly than you, and that it was precisely because of this behavior that you really liked them.
But following the example of others, you often notice that this style does not really suit you. You feel fragile and vulnerable and are unable and, to be perfectly honest, even unwilling to learn to be more confident and strong. Your forte is the eroticism of submission! You tend to yield rather than press forward – and therein lies a certain kind of sexual power.
Your confidence, including your confidence in bed, tends to be more spontaneous than controlled. But if you are already aroused, if your body is turned on and knows what it wants, you can lead any partner into the abyss of passion, giving them a full sense of leadership and advantage. It is hard to resist the power of your sincere wish to be desired. When your partners take possession of you, they often fail to notice that they themselves become your captives.
You feel fabulous if…
You are magnificent if you feel hot.
When the people you like notice you and pay attention to you, it fills you with confidence and lifts your spirits. You consider this “slightly charged” emotional upsurge normal and want to keep it up in your daily life.
Why not start the day with flight and freedom? If you rarely get to feel like this, it can cause frustration and a desire to drastically change something – find a new partner, alter the situation, move, or change jobs. A boring life is not for you!
You know how to pick the right direction
You have learned to make decisions based on what pleases and suits you. When you trust your intuition, you are often lucky – both in relationships and in sex.
A decision about a partner made on the fly – whether to come closer or pull back, to agree or decline to have sex – most of the time turns out to be the right one. This skill is crucial in almost all areas of life, from the choice of clothes, places for dates, relaxation and flirting, to the life-work balance. This is how you are able to maintain enough energy and strength for pleasure, which makes you a very hot and attractive partner.
You can restrain your sexual impulses in order to end up with more pleasure, avoid unnecessary risks, or cool someone’s passions. Thanks to this, you can add new experiences to your sexual repertoire as it becomes more varied and exciting.
Take the lead in sex? Why not?
In your daily life, you make quick and confident decisions, which attracts people to you.
But in sex, you tend to be more careful and expect someone else to initiate. You can test the resolve of your partners and sometimes even refuse sex if you do not feel too confident in the situation.
For you to really want to have sex, a partner must have certain undeniable advantages, and the setup (time, place, and circumstances) must be favorable. If everything is in order, you can be very passionate and creative in bed, and a partner who is lucky enough to be with you at that time will be consumed by your erotic imagination and the power of your sincere feelings.
Sex is always about something bigger
You enjoy the trust and support of all sexes and genders. Finding a partner for an intimate relationship, when you want one, is never a problem. You are recognized as an alluring love object.
However, your prudence and attention to how your body feels help you avoid promiscuous and numerous sexual ties. You prefer reliable partners, and it can be said that you are “virtually monogamous.” But, of course, you don’t mind a little flirting that makes your life brighter.
Sex as a symbolic experience
You differentiate between your own feelings and pleasure from sex and your partner’s contribution to your enjoyment. You like to evaluate yourself and your partners in your respective abilities to give each other pleasure.
You appreciate the approval and positive feedback about your sexual encounters: they give you confidence and calm in bed, perhaps even filling you with a sense of power. For you, sex always means something bigger. You know how a relationship will change after the first night of intimacy and how it will evolve based on your actions.
Although this approach may seem mundane, you rely on your fine intuition to keep the relationships you want and avoid the ones you don’t. Your predictions often come true, which only proves that you are right. You also know how to put an end to a relationship, if necessary.
Strengths parties:
- Trust in your body and natural impulses for arousal, the ability to quickly restore your energy and positive outlook when the necessary resources – sleep, food, access to nature and regular rest – are available.
- A great store of vitality, openness to the world, sincerity and spontaneous sexuality make you an infinite source of optimism and joy for people around you.
- The ability to make choices that satisfy your desires while maintaining good balance and caution.
- Understanding your advantages in relationships with partners and willingness to look for someone to whom your heart will belong.
Vulnerable parties:
- The risk of being a “bird in a golden cage” – dependence on the availability of resources and the people who own them.
- Overestimation of the influence and abilities of powerful partners. Fascination and attraction to dominant sexual partners.
- The tendency to make yourself a “universal object of love” and assess your effect on a partner by their willingness to serve your whims.
- The risk of settling down and not caring enough about your success in love and work.
Recommendations:
#01
Rely on your own sense of enjoyable effort rather than on outside sources, such as advice from ambitious friends, random books, websites, or charismatic instructors. Others may indulge in long sleepless nights of partying or try shock diets, burn the candle at both ends with sex in the workplace or follow ascetic spiritual practices to achieve ecstasy.
But none of these radical approaches on the verge of exhaustion are for you! Any physical overload will take away your joy of full-fledged sexuality and may even prevent you from orgasming. If you need the help of a person of authority to recover, choose a specialist from a supportive profession, such as a family therapist or coach, who will not pressure you but will be considerate and caring. Only in an atmosphere of trust with another person will you truly feel what is good for you.
The same principle also applies to sexual relationships. Sometimes friendly sex can heal, so don’t ignore this option but also don’t feel obligated to pay for such healing with eternal devotion.
#02
Perhaps the main thing for you is finding a fitting rest/activity schedule and places in nature that will give you a sense of peace, harmony, and well-being. Without such a connection, your powers will tend to dwindle. It is important to regularly come into contact with nature, of whichever diverse kind.
Wherever you are and no matter how urban or industrial your environment, take the time to contemplate the natural landscape and living plants, play with animals and spend time with simple, authentic people. Even if creating such a lifestyle takes time and money, it is worth it. You and your partners will gain access to an unforgettable erotic experience and a new quality of life full of pleasure.
#03
Usually, to shake off this mood, all you need is just to get a good night’s sleep, relax, or switch to another activity. A simple walk in a beautiful place, smelling flowers and seeing trees, and a chance to be seen by approving and supportive friends or loved ones who know how sexy you really are will help you get back into your “sexual shape.”
When your body and mind are fresh, excitement will come naturally and will not need to be played or justified. You will feel like you are truly yourself when you are around other people!
#04
But if you feel cramped or uncomfortable inside your “social bubble,” don’t forget that you have the right to choose your environment and social circle, feed your natural drive, and get nourished by contacts with new people.
It’s like breathing: each new person is like a new breath! So allow yourself to truly breathe through communication. You need people who have the gift of a positive attitude to life, those who are ready to openly admire nature, art, science, and, of course, you! The modern pace of life often forces us to go at a breakneck speed, and you may find yourself close to panic if those around you are not aware of your needs.
Be prepared also to seek support from stronger and more dependable people, ask for help. Choose a realistic amount of work, intellectual stimulation, and physical effort – always keep a stash of energy for tonight’s orgasm. Let the body’s desire for pleasure show you your limits. You will see how great that is!
#05
Don’t be shy, just choose in your favor, and don’t let anyone, not even common morality, throw you off your course. In intimate relationships and your sexual practices, this is an advantage that allows you to enjoy the moment. Your ability to rejoice and indulge in pleasure is simply a gift from the gods, which should be valued and presented with dignity.
#06
Don’t forget to express your gratitude for the pleasant moments to your partner and talk about how you bring joy and pleasure to each other. Exchange your sex secrets and details to expand your boundaries. Be curious and actively communicate! Let it become your new hobby and even sport. Confidence and satisfaction in the erotic field are what makes both of you true masters.
