Energy
only 10% can boast of this
- Energy
- Passion
- Self-Regulation
- Mindfulness
Energy is your main source of understanding the ebbs and flows of sexual potency and you know how to follow them.
You are a lucky optimist. Your sexuality springs from the feeling of natural energy and openness to the world.
For you, sex is a natural part of life that only logically follows a healthy body’s impulse to stay alive in all situations.
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Thankfully, you’re not the only one who feels an influx of arousal as something joyful and inspiring. Whether consciously or not, other people feel the same, only they are often scared to admit it to themselves. You, on the other hand, do not see anything wrong with expressing your drive almost as directly as you are experiencing it. Trust in your sexual impulse, combined with an almost childlike spontaneity and charm, distinguishes you from others.
You tend to be too hard on yourself, judging your openness. Don’t worry about how others perceive you; don’t be ashamed of your feelings. Let go of stereotypes and moral principles and enjoy life to the fullest!
Relying on some moral authority, you act as if from a sense of duty. In sex, this can mean some kind of compulsion, i.e., following sexual obligations without desire. You may feel undervalued by partners but tend to take it as a matter of course.
Your physical resource is everything to you!
You may have noticed how much your sexuality as well as your actions and moods depend on your physical strength, health, and the level of energy.
If you believe that this is true for all people, you are not entirely correct. In your case, the wellbeing of your body is a prerequisite for any undertaking, including sexual adventures. Your body practically gives you an ultimatum, and you must carefully listen to its demands. After all, if you are hungry or stuffed, if you are too hot or too cold, if the party is too loud or too boring, the very thought of sex will be unpleasant.
Luckily, you are very good at listening to your body and know your limits in every way. Generally, you acutely feel the ebbs and flows of energy and treat them as a natural occurrence that should be paid attention to. To an outsider, this peculiarity of yours may seem a bit childish and even naive, but it should actually be accepted as something natural in you, as an important and foundational personality trait. This attention to immediate experiences and sensations is incredibly valuable in sex and may bring unforgettable experiences to you and your partner.
The power of vulnerability
In search of your own brand of sexuality, you have likely tried to be more engaged and determined, thought about those who act more confidently and dazzlingly than you, and that it was precisely because of this behavior that you really liked them. But following the example of others, you often notice that this style does not really suit you. You feel fragile and vulnerable and are unable and, to be perfectly honest, even unwilling to learn to be more confident and strong. Your forte is the eroticism of submission! You tend to yield rather than press forward – and therein lies a certain kind of sexual power.
Your confidence, including your confidence in bed, tends to be more spontaneous than controlled. But if you are already aroused, if your body is turned on and knows what it wants, you can lead any partner into the abyss of passion, giving them a full sense of leadership and advantage. It is hard to resist the power of your sincere wish to be desired. When your partners take possession of you, they often fail to notice that they themselves become your captives.
From heaven to earth
After a playful flirtation or sex, you sometimes ask yourself if things feel right. Occasionally, your self-reflections backslide into self-blame and shame. You believe that someone is judging you for your actions and that social morals do not allow you any freedom.
Comparing yourself to other people, you are too hard on yourself and criticize your behavior until you feel like an abject failure in the eyes of others. But you shouldn’t torment yourself this way because, after such rich experiences, the most important thing is to just enjoy life and not worry about what others may think about you.
Passion and prudity
You do not want to give up the pleasures of sex, but at the same time, you harshly judge yourself for being ” depraved.” Knowing that some things are unacceptable, you still disobey certain moral standards as it pleases you. Your partners may be staggered when you cycle between pursuing sexual adventures and analyzing your behavior, your disposition towards sex and introspection, and your sometimes inexplicable rejection of pleasure. This adds drama to your relationship, but it can both attract and repel.
Moral standards and obligations
It looks like you may have consciously or unconsciously adopted a strict moral code and accepted the obligations that may restrain you in your relationships with other people. Perhaps you have contemplated and harshly judged your own sexual expressions, or, conversely, your environment and life experiences have shaped your worldview.
You may feel obligated to do various things for others, or “to atone for sins,” even if you don’t feel guilty. You may perceive your part in the sexual satisfaction of others as “work” that does not receive due recognition from your partners. You do it well, but you get neither reciprocity nor full pleasure from sex.
Strengths parties:
- Vibrant sexual expression and attractiveness
- The ability to make choices in favor of your desires and follow them in practice
- The ability to passionately experience the moment and lead others in the direction of enjoyment
Vulnerable parties:
- Feeling exhausted or suddenly losing energy during your sexual adventures and/or work projects`
- There may be uncertainty about the significance of your role in relationships with partners, often the need for their leading role in order to complete the enterprises initiated by you and even achieve orgasm
- Reduced ability to self-regulate, manage resources of health, money and time
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