Passion
only 7% can boast of this
- Energy
- Passion
- Self-Regulation
- Mindfulness
Passion is the main source of your strength, energy, emotional uplift, and mental clarity.
Your natural creativity feeds on erotic dreams and fantasies and develops through bringing them to life.
You are at the peak of your sexual activity and need to freely express your desires with partners through sexual experimentation and admiration from others.
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Sometimes, when you feel your own passion, you judge yourself and have mixed feelings about your desires. You believe that others will not approve of your sexuality, and you may find your desires unacceptable. Stereotypes, moral attitudes, and demands from figures of authority can hinder your pleasure or make you feel guilty. Don’t forget that your passion is a thing of beauty, and you deserve to be happy!
You control the key aspects of well-being, such as health, income, and social status, almost automatically. Healthy and successful people get your attention, and you sometimes fantasize about having sex with them. However, you value and stick to socially meaningful relationships, whether it be marriage, parenthood, or just friendships. You believe that affairs should be light and, ideally, hidden from regular partners. You also think that people who are irresponsible and not serious are asexual, even if they are physically attractive. You know how to communicate clearly, how to make decisions and keep promises. You will think several times before changing anything in a relationship, and if you decide to break it off, you then easily end the relationship and maintain friendly contact with former partners.
You are under the impression that after all of life’s ups and downs, all that remains is to pay up by simply doing what experienced adults tell you. It may not be very sexy, but that’s your conclusion at present. For you, sex, especially sex in a committed relationship, also resembles compulsory duty that you have learned to do dependably, without thinking that anything else may be in store for normal, honest people.
Feeling blissful
Bliss and joy of life – that’s your motto! You know how to enjoy sex and the world around you, and orgasm has become your shining beacon guide from the very first time. You instantly pick up the signs of arousal and know how to get your pleasure. Your imagination helps you create perfect moments of passion. Health and sexual desire become the crucial indicators of your wellbeing.
Onward to joyful adventures!
When, where and with whom to have fun?
Your thoughts revolve around these questions! You are forever looking for the perfect occasions to flirt, going to parties and meeting new people. Never forgetting about comfortable places to have sex, you find that new places only ignite your desire!
In your own eyes, you are magnificent if
You are fabulous when you feel sexually attractive. When the people you like notice and pay attention to you, it fills you with confidence and lifts your spirits. You consider this “slightly charged” emotional upsurge normal and want to keep it up in your daily life.
Why not start every morning with flight and freedom? If you rarely get to feel like this, it can cause frustration and a desire to drastically change something – find a new partner, alter the situation, move, or change jobs.
A boring life is not for you!
The drama of the fall
Your passion is encroached upon by moral doubt, self-reflection, and self-criticism. You judge yourself in terms of good and evil, nobility and depravity. But this is how you get to know yourself better and show yourself as a thinking person, even if you may be overly dramatic at times. You may be attracted to many people who are willing to share your bed, and you can be a real firecracker, an idol-level sex star. But you are not entirely certain that you are prepared to sleep with one and all. Your exceptional personality haunts not just those around you but also yourself.
Sometimes your admirers annoy you, and you want to get away from them. Still, as soon as a new seducer shows up on the horizon, you dive head-first right into the abyss of passion, forgetting all about your introspection and philosophy for the sake of a moment of pleasure. Once that has passed, you will berate yourself for your foolishness and unsuccessful attempt to reign in your sexual impulse.
Comparing yourself to others
Noticing that your personal experience is unique, you find justifications for your actions. Your obsessive self-reflection is one of the things that make you so unusual. By looking at your behavior in the context of family, religious, or community values, you will realize how exceptional your experience is. You might even consider writing a book about it, but chances are your brilliant ideas will disappear as soon as you sit down at your desk – after all, real life and relationships are much more exciting than setting down words on a page.
In reality, you likely do not have enough patience and artistic vision to write a book. Your self-judgment may even produce nasty images to temporarily keep your inner lover from embarking on new adventures, but that’s where it all ends. You can, however, share your experience with friends or divulge it to a life coach/therapist.
Passion and restraint: a heady mix
You are drawn to a combination of sex appeal and the ability to restrain one’s desires, which can deceive both inexperienced and experienced partners for a while. You can keep on a string of wealthy men and women who are looking for a serious relationship. But if you face a choice or encounter a difficult life situation, your impulsiveness and unpredictability can get out.
At such times, your insecurity, thirst for pleasure, and irrational thinking can become a problem for your partner. As a rule, more mature partners are not ready for such challenges. In intimate relationships, such tensions can be confusing because your sex appeal is extremely attractive, but your dramatic self-judgment and moral anguish rooted deep in your personality can get in the way of a real connection and chemistry.
Everything's under control
You are used to automatically keeping a tight rein on various aspects of your life – health, income, social status, etc. You are attracted to people who lead a healthy lifestyle and are at your level. Sometimes, you fantasize about having sex with them, but you always keep in mind the value of a serious relationship– marriage, parenthood, or friendship.
Even if you do enter into an affair, you make sure they are easy and do not create problems for either of the parties. Better yet, if they remain unknown to your regular partners. You value clarity in relationships, so you take responsibility for your decisions and keep your promises. When the time comes to break up, you easily end old relationships and maintain friendly contact with former partners.
Sex as a chore
Whether you like it or not, you have to do things in a socially acceptable way, but you are not sure you like it. Obediently following the instructions and demands of other people is something you know how to do well, but there is nothing exciting about it. In sex, not everyone likes obeying and following instructions since there is a minimal initiative in it and a lot of fear and passive waiting.
Some partners out there have accepted this trait of yours, that of “being led,” and these partners tend to be dominant. Think about it, and if this suits you, get the most out of games involving the submission and domination roles. Your arousal will let you know whether this is working for you. If you are just servicing your partner and sex feels like a chore, this is not what you need: sooner or later, your partner will figure out that you’re faking it, and both of you will be sad.
Fatigue tends to lead to the wrong conclusions
You may feel that you have to “behave properly” as payback for something shameful or wrong you’ve done in your life, attributing a certain mystery to the sources and reasons for not living your life as you’d like. This is why you are prone to a “redemptive” style in your relationships with partners: sometimes, you may feel shame and apologize for things that you are completely innocent of or take responsibility for the actions of others.
It can be difficult for you to defend your position – it is much easier to maintain the image of a perfect adult who simply demonstrates exemplary behavior. Instead of asking for help and relying on your partner, you tend to assert your independence and strive to look self-sufficient even when you’re on the verge of exhaustion. Most of the time, you get away with staying hidden behind this image, but this can be exceptionally difficult in bed. After all, this setting calls for sincerity and arousal, and you are too tired, just automatically doing a “chore.”
Strengths parties:
- Vibrant sexual expression and attractiveness
- The ability to make choices in favor of your desires and follow them in practice
- The ability to passionately experience the moment and lead others in the direction of enjoyment
Vulnerable parties:
- Feeling exhausted or suddenly losing energy during your sexual adventures and/or work projects`
- There may be uncertainty about the significance of your role in relationships with partners, often the need for their leading role in order to complete the enterprises initiated by you and even achieve orgasm
- Reduced ability to self-regulate, manage resources of health, money and time
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